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Maintenance case against my husband


22-Oct-2023 (In Divorce Law)
Husband has filed section 9 RCR to call me back whereas I have left him due to mental disturbance given by him in marriage like not Taking care of basic needs and asking the money back which he paid me when I asked for my need.He didn't arrange practically anything for my pregnancy delivery but verbally he said his family will help but his family saying call your mother to help you.So,these many politics happening and effecting my daily activities mentally.Unfortunately,we have 5 months old son .1 year of arranged marriage.Iam also working but less salary.So,n1) i want money back which my parents gave at the time of marriage.2 ) I want to set my son's future which is impossible alone with my salary.3) i don't want to be with him at all.
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Answer #1
950 votes
Greetings to you. With everything that you have mentioned, we can oppose the RCR on the basis of everything that has transpired and also, it’s incumbent upon husband to take care of the financial expenses of the child. What I would also like to know is that when did you get married, separated and after how long of being separated do he file an application of RCR? Because generally RCR is a tactics of lawyer to shift every onus of traumatized relationship from husband to wife. So we have to guide us well to make his marital abuses clear. Feel free to reach out if you deem it fit. Regards
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Answer #2
680 votes
You can file divorce case along with maintenance and criminal case for torturing you at maternal house. please consult an advocate locally and take their help to file the case. regarding maintenance amount, court will decide it by considering the parties net worth and practical issues.
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Answer #3
728 votes
Hi Nobody can force you to stay with your estranged husband, even court cannot compel. However, we would advise you to engage a lawyer and take legal help in representing your case with proper facts. You can file a domestic violence complaint And maintenance petition against your husband simultaneously. You may contact for further help
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Answer #4
984 votes
the details which you have provided are UN sufficient to resolve your query even though even though in the rcr petition you can file written statement along with the application for maintanance
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Answer #5
957 votes
You need to hire expert advocate in this regard and thenceforth we need to file reply to the restitution of conjugal rights! We need more facts as in to what exactly do u want from this relationship…thanks
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Answer #6
865 votes
question 1. After filing rcr were you both called for counselling. if no the you both will have to appear before the counsellor and mention your says Next step you can move for divorce and also praying for maintenance and permanent alimony but while hearing for maintenance and permanent alimony you both will have to produce the income and assets details be aware not to produce false details on basis of this the Hon’ble court can allow the maintenance and permanent alimony and for maintenance of the child
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Answer #7
873 votes
File Application Before Court take time to gather money and pay such money in 2-3 installments which amounts to lumpsum final settlment towards permanent alimony after getting divorce.  Or pay her monthly maintenance.
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Answer #8
754 votes
okay I understand your questions so you filed a section 125 crpc right your husband filed rcr case so now you want to take alemoney and give a mutual divorce right yes it is possible so you refer the mater to mediation and talk with through mediater and advocate it will be close it early method if you need any legal help contact me thank you
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Answer #9
994 votes
Very good evening.. u ask ur husband details in consent Village Administration Officer. Use the RTI. this way only helps u ... So don't worry U having it husband aadhar card means having so many ways.
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Answer #10
703 votes
the amount of maintenance that you claim for your child should depend upon the present earning of your husband. if you are living away from your husband and if the child is with you you can Claim still more maintenance for your child besides what you have asked in 125.
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Answer #11
781 votes
You should look after your case properly which was filed by you under section 125 crpc,no need to panic, he is using using tactics against you to make you tired for withdrawing your case, if he filed case under section 9, then try to get transferred at your hometown,try to contact him directly to end this discord to save money, time and energy.
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Answer #12
775 votes
Hi Madam, If he bas filed mental harassment tell the court in Section 9 petition filed by your husband. Then only the court will grant in your favour Next, yes you can claim maintenance for yourself and secure amount for your son Please call for further clarification on the issue Thanks Adv Dr Preeti
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Answer #13
635 votes
File a domestic violence case against your husband stating that you are physically attacked by your husband and mental cruelty by your husband family members and if court finds any prima facie then court will remand all the accused therein.. File a maintenance petition under section 125 crpc and get a monthly maintenance from your husband
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Answer #14
717 votes
Maintenance will be calculated based on your income, moveable and immovable assets. Courts will also consider the lifestyle provided by you to your wife when you were together. Based on all these factors and the claim of your wife amount will be decided.
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Answer #15
844 votes
No issues , you have to file a counter in maintenance case along with that submit your salary slip and convince the court that you can give maintenance for monthly basis.. If your wife is not working , definitely you will be about to pay maintenance and if she is working its subject to submission made before the judge.
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Answer #16
805 votes
Dear client You need to reply to the application under section 125 that has been filed against you. The court will be directing you to file your income affidavit as a compliance step which is mandated in such proceedings. There you will be required to declare your true income and assets. Mere demand of a settlement amount does not make you legally bound to pay it. The case can be settled on any stage at any terms agreeable to both parties. Feel free to get in touch to discuss further. Regards Adv. Abhinav Sharma
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Answer #17
813 votes
You can take the plea before magistrate and the court will consider this as per your financial status. You need to take all strong grounds by consulting advocate and situation may be handled in an appropriate way.
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Answer #18
691 votes
If the behaviour of your husband is intolerable towards you then rather then dragging you can always file for divorce against him. I would suggest you to go for the mutual divorce because it is less money consuming and ends up in maximum of six months. For more legal assistance I am just a call away.
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Answer #19
523 votes
If a case has been filed against you. make sure that you defend your case as to the best of your capabilities and get cases in your favour. one should be aware that the laws favours women who have been subjected to domestic violence and will definitely help you.
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Answer #20
770 votes
Divorce case is contested in family court. You shouldn't be nervous if you have not done anything wrong. Judges decide a case based on the facts and circumstances. I dont think that you should worry about court proceedings. You should boldly face the judge and answer him/her whenever they ask you something. Your lawyer shall manage the rest.
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Answer #21
839 votes
Dear Sir At the time of mutual divorce you may include such condition if agreed by her then only proceed. Otherwise file permanent child custody case and get decree. if the child is more than 5 years you may claim him. Welfare of the child is the consideration for the Court.
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Answer #22
996 votes
If your husband fails to maintain the child, you can again file maintenance petition claiming maintenance of child from your husband. No such a unconscious bargain clause in an agreement is not legal and if you are natural guardian of child then the husband is only left with visitation rights. Rest for any other help, you can contact for further legal advice.
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Answer #23
772 votes
In this matter, I would like to know if all the above scenarios mentioned in the mutual divorce petition or not based on your answer guide you further. I have vast practice in that area you can seek my assistance in your matter.
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Answer #24
663 votes
Madam, you can file a suit, if earlier order was made, accordingly, he can pay u as per the order. if not then proceed to execution. If even though you can enhance it. Kindly contact for further details. Eny enquiry contact feel free .
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Answer #25
851 votes
yes JSR law associates can help you in resolving this case easily our team has an experience of more than 21 years in dealing with these cases there is some facts which our team wanted to know before guiding you for this issue
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Answer #26
692 votes
Greetings for the day, Understanding you situation, I would advice that there has been a breach on behalf of your husband, in which case, you can file for contempt proceedings before the Hon’ble High Court. For further assistance, feel free to connect. Regards
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Answer #27
691 votes
The wife can ask for a payment which can be given by the husband according to his earnings. Moreover if the wife is not working and not in a position to maintain herself and her children she can ask for monthly maintenance or one time settlement. The court will decide the amount of maintenance according to his salary. For one time settlement, the court will not interfere but the the parties can mutually decide.
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Answer #28
551 votes
Hello Madam ji if you want mutual divorce from her husband . first off all you tell me your metrimonial problem . you ask the question regarding the money it is depend upon you and your husband status.
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Answer #29
996 votes
Hi..!!! There is no limit however you have to evaluate this on the basis of different criteria like you have to see if you both have a baby and with whom that baby will live and are you working or not, etc etc. Accumulate these things and ask for full and final alimony.
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Answer #30
556 votes
Hello, in mutual divorce , the wife can ask for as much as she thinks is just and appropriate and for that matter the husband should be able to fulfill her demands. for more information, feel free to get in touch.
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Answer #31
987 votes
hey....yes you can do that if you have not remarried. it is quite common that the maintenance amount awarded may not suffice since inflation is a major issue which is bound to affect the standard of living.
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Answer #32
547 votes
you can ask maintenance of the child we can also seek maintenance of the child for education and for change in the circumference settle for mutually drivers only for the U and husband and not for the chat there for the child is estimate child of a husband and his anthel to for the maintenance from your husband and there is no any bar for maintenance to the child or any other
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Answer #33
951 votes
if he is not paying the maintenance file in execution petition before the same Court which has order the maintenance file the petition with the dues which are outstanding which he is supposed to pay
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Answer #34
764 votes
1. Both parties can enter into an MOU wherein the terms of agreement are mentioned. 2. It would be preferable that you withdraw all cases only after getting full settlement amount and getting divorce decree. 3. make sure to include clause that you can refile all cases if your husband breaks any terms of MOU. for further queries feel free to contact me
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Answer #35
649 votes
In mutual consent divorce ask your husband to pay 50% of the total agreed amount for one time settlement in first motion. Then in the second motion of mutual consent divorce ask your husband to pay rest of the amount. Make a memorandum of understanding between you and him by which and in the time frame both of you will withdraw the cases filed against each other.
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Answer #36
938 votes
if your marriage is not working better to depart peacefully, the amount of 19 L which he is paying is towards your permanent alimony, if you are satisfied with that amount you can go for mutual consent divorce or you can negotiate and see what would be the best deal depending upon the facts and circumstances of your case like, how much is his income, assets , how much is your income and assets etc. further accepting 2 L at time of filing is ok but you can ask to pay more, further everything regarding balance payment will be written in petition, normally all advocates take care that the amount which is agreed is paid in time so nothing to worry as such. further if he fails or refuses to pay you can withdraw your consent for divorce and the case will be dismissed.
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Answer #37
955 votes
First u hire a perfect advocate, Memorandum of Settlement all the facts are mentioned. if any party breach of contract any party then defaulting party contempt of court Act. so, all the information u can talk to u a personal Advocate.
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Answer #38
761 votes
Mutual Divorce itself includes final settlement that includes the clause of withdrawing case of 125 Crpc. Every payment clause can be added in Mutual divorce settlement which includes money back and maintenance.
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Answer #39
855 votes
Hi there! At the time of filing a petition for mutual divorce, you must have signed a MOU or settlement deed, in which your husband was supposed to return all your belongings to you. If he's not complying with that, you need to send him a legal notice to comply with it and cooperate with sending those items over or we'll make it clear that in case he doesn't comply, you will back out of mutual divorce. If that doesn't work, we can seek help of police station to help you recover your articles back. For assistance you may consult me.
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Answer #40
902 votes
Hello Madam, as per the facts stated by you, in case your stuff is there and husband is not agreeing for courier than in that case, take help of a local police station, take some officer along for further discussion please feel free to call thanks
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Answer #41
745 votes
Recieved your query. You may contact me for further legal assistance and book an appointment for the same. No need to worry about the situation. There will be quick redressal of your query and no harm to anyone who will go to collect the luggage.
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Answer #42
918 votes
hi, .i suggest you to make agreement regarding settlement and then withdraw the case the case can be referred to mediation, and then during mediation the agreement case the agreement can be made. pls feel free to contact me for further details. thanks
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Answer #43
856 votes
Try getting the settlement sum in tranches on the date of mutual divorce and while withdrawing the crpc petition. Record the same by filing a memo in maintenance proceedings and as far as possible, avoid withdrawing the case before the settlement.
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Answer #44
813 votes
You can ask maintenance for your child in Hindu adoption and maintenance case ur child right is not finishe u can ask maintenance under sec 125 croc also ur child rights is not finished after your divorce for further information plz feel free to call
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Answer #45
770 votes
I've understood your concern and I've an experience of dealing such kind of matters therefore, be assured that I shall assist you throughout the process in obtaining appropriate remedy for you. Please reach out to me so that we can expeditiously start the process. Regards, Alankrit Bhatnagar (Advocate)
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Answer #46
794 votes
Hello mam, as per section 125 of crpc, you can claim maintenance for your child. therefore your child is having every right to claim maintenance from his father under s. 125 crpc. for further clarifications kindly call me
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