Separation solution. Please tell me how to proceed ?

621 votes

Tell your wife if she cannot adjust and live with her in laws court will consider it as cruelty on her part, amicably sit and sort out differences. I am sure a brief discussion will be helpful or in pressence of your lawyers.

Advocate Aveek Bose LawRato

637 votes

Hello,

If you get into litigation then the relationship will not survive. This is a tough situation and you need to handle it by your own. Try to make your wife understand that both of them are important to u. They both need to adjust little bit. Talk to your mother also. Everything can not be written. If you share the details then I can give you tips how to handle both.

LawRato LawRato

616 votes

It seems that there is an issue with adjustment and you need to make a choice between the three women in your life who are all equally important to you. Before making any legal choice it would be advisable to go for marriage counselling

Advocate Alakananda Das LawRato

860 votes

Your problem is such type that I can't directly give you a solution within court premises. It is very difficult to give up relationship with mother due to wife's desire and vis a vis. Better you consult with a family counselor or pshycologist to improve the relationship among you. Finally if you think separation become inevitable then it is your choice which would be sustained.

Advocate Aniket Joardar LawRato

514 votes

Suppose, you, your wife, your daughter and your mother went to somewhere after long travel all of you are became hungry. You see one Hotel, where the Boy of the hotel say there is only one Biscuit are available in his hotel. And only one will eat the said Biscuit. Who can eat .. you decide... either you, either your wife, either your mother or your daughter.
Sometime, life will ask us to chose someone or to leave someone forever. Remember it that, in the life there is no second chance. Therefore, once you get signal for separation from your wife's side. you should decide and accept it through your mind not through your heart. Heart always say no. But mind say yes.
I can say yes, you should take decision as the time wants, do not cross it. otherwise, time will change and your entire family will be ruin only because you should not take the right decision.

Advocate Sanjoy Acharjee LawRato