Want this relationship to work. Don't want divorce

800 votes

Hello Maam, as per the query is by you the legal advises you should immediately approach the High Court of your concerned please and file a petition for habeas corpus seeking the whereabouts of your kids because that is the most important thing. As of now please feel free to reach out to us over a call and have a further discussion. Thanks.

Dr. Preeti Manderna LawRato

966 votes

Answer: Your struggle to think clearly in this muddle is common to women who live with abusive men. I want to help clarify some important truths. First, the sin may be the same, but the consequences are not. His sin of hitting you is not just sinful, it’s illegal.

Second, your husband’s rage and subsequent acts of violence toward you are not uncontrollable. He has total control and limits himself right now to certain levels of physical violence (that he feels are acceptable). His behavior is always his choice.  

In addition, I’m sure he has experienced disrespect from other people in his life – his employer, a rude driver, your children, a friend, or an enemy. People sin against us all the time in many ways and sometimes we do get angry. However, that doesn’t mean we hit them. In fact, isn’t that what we teach our children NOT to do when someone takes their toy or makes them mad? We don’t hit people when we’re mad. Period!

Let me ask you a question. Does your husband hit other people when he feels disrespected? What do you imagine a police officer would say if your husband used that as his excuse when he hit someone who disrespected him in traffic or at the mall?  

Your husband feels entitled to hit you when he is mad and you have chosen not to initiate legal consequences that would protect you from this kind of abusive behavior.

Advocate Sunil Nandal LawRato

934 votes

Madam it depends upon what exactly you want if you want to live there or you want to take diveoce if you want to live there then you must have to maintain compromising nature else the situation you told is more than mental cruelty you are free to file a case of mental cruelty on your husband as well as their family members and demand children's custody

Advocate Gurmeet Singh LawRato

654 votes

The following options are available:
1. You may file a Domestic Violence case under the Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act,2005 seeking Residence orders for yoursellf
2. You may also file a case for Children’s custody under the Guardians and Ward Act,1860
3. You may also file a Maintenance case under Section 125 CrPC 1973 seeking maintenance expenses for yourself.
For further queries, please contact me

Rgds

Advocate Shalu Bhatia LawRato

537 votes

You can avail various recourse for your issues. For cruelty you can file complaint against the person doing so in your concerned thana. You can file for issuing the direction from the court to your husband to allow you to meet your children. You can also send the legal notice to either to make good on their part pr else you will initiate legal proceedings against them.

Advocate Shubham Sharma LawRato