Received notice from husband- don’t know how to respond

I’ve been married since 4 years. After 1 year of marriage my husband asked me to move out. I couldn’t accept. I was stressed so when i went to my parents house he vacated our house and moved to another place. I stayed with parents for almost 9 months. My family helped me to be with him again. He and his family relatives couldn’t disagree but they didn’t want me to live with him.I stayed for 2 months and I was mentally tortured for no reason by him and his mother. Later I realised his relatives around that house also didn’t want me to live there. My parents visited me once and they were treated so bad and my husband used violence to kick us all out. I’ve started working and have some personal issues. I don’t want to stress myself/my parents so I didn’t file for a divorce. I’ve received 3 times notice from the court from his side. I’m not at home to receive and want sometime to respond as I’m not mentally ready to go through all that stress again. Please suggest