Want mutual divorce but we belong to different religion

907 votes

I am a Hindu brahmin who married a by birth christian girl(no baptisma done) as per hindu rituals publically. Further I registered that at delhi. Neither she's a proper christian as her batisation is due since her birth nor she's a hindu as I've not got her converted. Her documents've her title as well as my surname. We got married in 2011, have a son born in 2013. Now we want to get separated on mutual consent with least litigation. She is agreeing to handover child to me & not asking for any alimony or settlement. Both of us just want to end it on a pleasant note. Pl advise the easiest way.

Ans:

You can get divorce on mutual consent with the conditions both of you agree. both of you can file mutual consent petition before the family court and get an order.

Advocate Girish Kodgi LawRato

722 votes

Sir,
Divorce by mutual consent is addressed under S. 13 B of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 and Section 28 of the Special Marriage Act, 1954. For parties to seek divorce by mutual consent, they must be living separately for a period of at least one year, and must resolve towards the end of the marriage. They must not be performing marital obligations – physical separation is not a criteria. The marriage must be beyond reconciliation, and presenting a petition for divorce together does not indicate amicability. Consent, however, must be free. If after 6 months the petition is not withdrawn, the parties may move the court within 18 months, after which the Court may grant the divorce.

The Special Marriage Act – An Introduction

The Special Marriage Act, 1954 (the Act), was enacted to provide a special form of marriage, to persons in India, and Indian nationals abroad, irrespective of the faith which either party to the marriage may profess. In addition to the provisions for solemnization of special marriages, the Act also provides for registration of marriages celebrated in other forms.

The Act came into force on January 1, 1955, and extends to the whole of India except the State of Jammu and Kashmir. It also applies to citizens of India domiciled in the territories to which the Act extends, who are in the State of Jammu and Kashmir.

Divorce by Mutual Consent

Under sec. 28 of the Act, which primarily deals with the provisions relating to obtaining a divorce by mutual consent in respect of a marriage solemnized and/or registered under the Act, a petition for divorce by mutual consent may be presented to the District Court. A few key points to be considered while seeking a divorce by mutual consent are as follows:

1. A petition for divorce must be presented to the District Court by both parties together.

2. The petition must be on the grounds,

that they have been living separately for a period of one year or more,
that they have not been able to live together, and
that they have mutually agreed that the marriage should be dissolved.
3. The petition may be presented only after one year from the date of entering the certificate of marriage in the Marriage Certificate Book. However, relaxation may be provided in cases where exceptional hardship is suffered by the petitioner or in cases of exceptional depravity on the part of the respondent.

4. The petition seeking divorce by mutual consent could be presented to a District Court, within whose jurisdiction, either,

the marriage was solemnized,
the respondent resides, or in case the wife is the petitioner, where she is residing,
the parties to the marriage last resided together, or
the petitioner resides, in cases where the respondent is residing outside the territories to which the Act extends.
5. Between 6 months after, and within 18 months of, the date of presentation of the petition seeking divorce by mutual consent, both parties must make a motion together seeking grant of a decree of divorce.

6. Before passing a decree of divorce, the District Court considers the following, among other aspects:

that the petition has not been withdrawn yet,
that a marriage has been solemnized under the Act,
that the averments in the petition are true,
that consent for divorce has not been obtained by force, fraud or undue influence
that there has not been any unnecessary or improper delay in instituting the proceedings.
Thus, the provisions and the procedure for obtaining divorce by mutual consent under the Special Marriage Act are fairly simple and straight forward.

Parties desirous of obtaining a divorce by mutual consent, must however keep in mind that the Act also contains provisions dealing with grant of alimony and maintenance, both permanent and during the pendency of the proceedings. In the cases of divorce by mutual consent, the parties may agree upon the terms relating to payment of alimony or maintenance and the same may be incorporated in the pleadings before the Court. However care has to be taken that suitable provisions are incorporated in the pleadings to avoid future misunderstandings or litigation. It is therefore advisable that, while discussing the various issues connected with seeking a divorce by mutual consent with their advocates, the parties must specifically discuss their arrangement and agreement on alimony and maintenance, and take suitable steps to ensure that their interest is safeguarded.

Advocate Srinivasa Kudva LawRato

860 votes

You have mentioned in your query that you registered the marriage. Please check the registration certificate to see under which law you had registered.
The Special Marriage Act, 1954 recognizes the marriage between two persons, irrespective of the religion or faith followed by them. It is likely that you have registered your marriage under this Act. Section 28 of the Special Marriage Act provides for Divorce by Mutual Consent. If you have registered under the Special Marriage Act, you and your wife will need to file a Petition in the jurisdictional Court and proceed accordingly. If not, please check the law under which you have registered. In most cases, the provisions of the law under which you registered your marriage will also provide for procedure in Divorce/ separation as well.
Please note that my legal advice is not final and without looking at the relevant documents and without obtaining further information from you, I cannot give a complete solution. For further clarifications, please feel free to contact me.

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