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How can I file for divorce when husband is not ready to talk to me


09-Jun-2023 (In Divorce Law)
I, a bengali hindu, got married under Special Marriage Act /, 7 months back but due to mental torture, moved out within a week & have been living with my parents since then. My husband lives in a foreign country & I visited him 6 months back, he was not present at his given address. He refused to meet me or talk to me even when the local police there contacted him. I returned to India the same day & have not heard from him or his family since. I would like to file for divorce & when can I do that? On what grounds can divorce take long to settle or be refused by my husband?
Answers (2)

Answer #1
361 votes
You can file for contested divorce on the following grounds - 

1. Adultery – The act of indulging in any kind of sexual relationship including intercourse outside marriage is termed as adultery. Adultery is counted as a criminal offence and substantial proofs are required to establish it. An amendment to the law in 1976 states that one single act of adultery is enough for the petitioner to get a divorce.



2. Cruelty – A spouse can file a divorce case when he/she is subjected to any kind of mental and physical injury that causes danger to life, limb and health. The intangible acts of cruelty through mental torture are not judged upon one single act but series of incidents. Certain instances like the food being denied, continuous ill treatment and abuses to acquire dowry, perverse sexual act etc are included under cruelty.



3. Desertion – If one of the spouses voluntarily abandons his/her partner for at least a period of two years, the abandoned spouse can file a divorce case on the ground of desertion.



4. Conversion – In case, either of the two converts himself/herself into another religion, the other spouse may file a divorce case based on this ground.



5. Mental Disorder – Mental disorder can become a ground for filing a divorce if the spouse of the petitioner suffers from incurable mental disorder and insanity and therefore cannot be expected from the couple to stay together.



6. Leprosy – In case of a ‘virulent and incurable’ form of leprosy, a petition can be filed by the other spouse based on this ground.



7. Venereal Disease – If one of the spouses is suffering from a serious disease that is easily communicable, a divorce can be filed by the other spouse. The sexually transmitted diseases like AIDS are accounted to be venereal diseases.



8. Renunciation – A spouse is entitled to file for a divorce if the other renounces all worldly affairs by embracing a religious order.



9. Not Heard Alive – If a person is not seen or heard alive by those who are expected to be ‘naturally heard’ of the person for a continuous period of seven years, the person is presumed to be dead. The other spouse should need to file a divorce if he/she is interested in remarriage.



10. No Resumption of Co-habitation – It becomes a ground for divorce if the couple fails to resume their co-habitation after the court has passed a decree of separation.



The following are the grounds for divorce in India on which a petition can be filed only by the wife.



1. If the husband has indulged in rape, bestiality and sodomy.



2. If the marriage is solemnized before the Hindu Marriage Act and the husband has again married another woman in spite of the first wife being alive, the first wife can seek for a divorce.



3. A girl is entitled to file for a divorce if she was married before the age of fifteen and renounces the marriage before she attains eighteen years of age. 



4. If there is no co-habitation for one year and the husband neglects the judgment of maintenance awarded to the wife by the court, the wife can contest for a divorce.
Answer #2
730 votes
You can file for divorce easily as it seems your husband has indeed deserted you. If the marriage has not been consummated, you can also file for annulment of your marriage. Even if he contests the divorce, the process shouldn't take too much time. The question of refusing divorce does not arise. Divorce can be granted as per judgement of the Court, your husband has no role to play in this regard.

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