Sir,My marriage was held on 5 years ago from then i am staying with my

745 votes

Why filing divorce can be dangerous for men Having gone through the problems created by wives and in-laws, many men are fed up, mentally tortured, and plainly looking for a way out of daily uncertainty that has become their life. So filing for divorce seems like a natural way to proceed.  Many of them are also misled by the wily wives (and in-laws) who tell them: “let’s file for mutual divorce”.   Our straight/linear thinking professional men don’t give a serious thought to the question that if the wife wants a divorce anywhere after 1 day to few months of marriage, why the hell did she agree to get married in the first place? No, they don’t dwell on that question much, because for them wife saying “let’s go for mutual divorce” almost seems like a Nirvana compared to the being married experience they have seen thus far. If you married daughter from a feminist family, then once you file divorce, any or all of the following can happen: Wife will file DV (domestic violence case), and ask for both monthly maintenance, and compensation. Or she may file CrPC 125 and ask for monthly maintenance.  Here the advantage for her is that she may or may not make that serious allegations as in DV, so she keeps one option open to show that she can still come back.

Advocate Aveek Bose LawRato

511 votes

hi, in your case if you are going for divorce then it may not be a good step rather you should make her understand about your situation and make her feel that and hope it will work if not then you can contact me for the next step.

Advocate Biswajit Mandal LawRato

546 votes

If your wife is adamant in troubling you the option is to initiate procedure from your side. You can file a divorce on ground of cruelty after one year of your marriage. As You said your marriage is already taken place for 5 years so you should file and independent petition against her in the Court. Regarding alimony you have to give half of your salary to your wife. For further details you have to contact with advocate

Advocate Lucky Mukherjee LawRato