Can living together be avoided if wife filed for DV

I have filed for divorce with help of my relatives (advocate). From November till now we both are separate and no communication. Our daughter born on 29 dec 2017. For the past no communication - calls, message nothing.. for first hearing my wife did not appear and second hearing judge was leave.. our third hearing on september next month.. i have take care my wife like a child with out doing any work because 3th month doctor advise me to take care her due to health issue.. myself and parents are living separately from day one of marriage.. in gap she had affair with brother friend. I have noticed of sharing her photo and chatting without knowing and changing contact name frequent.. that boy chatted with about bedroom things and all. She had fine recharge for his mobile. Finally when i asked about him, she is saying that he is mental due to love failure of another girl. But his messages never seems like that. So i have applied divorce.. if she apply DV then we need live together?