Advocate Siddharth D Magdum

Questions Answered by Advocate Siddharth D Magdum

Q: Complaint against boyfriend for blackmailing and abusing

My boyfriend for 4 years has been mentally and emotionally abusing me for quite some time. Recently, things took for the worse as he started blackmailing me of posting objectionable photos of our intimate moments of us to the public and the families, if I don't have a physical relationship with him and marry him. He even pleads by abusing me everyday, and often troubles and harasses my family members whenever I try to fight this situation. My parents are very strict, and I want to tackle this situation without bringing them in the scene. I have a few recordings and abusive messages of him saying these things and even accepting his blackmailing. Kindly assist me in this troublesome situation.

Advocate Siddharth D Magdum answered
If your boyfriend is blackmailing you and he is harassing you then you can file a police complaint in your local police station stating that he is blackmailing you and abusing you by giving bad words. It is a serious offence.

Q: Clarification on deduction of rent deposited by tenant

I was residing in a rented flat for 6 months and vacated it on 29th july.on the same day new tenant occupied the flat.now the owner is ducting 2 months deposit stating that there was a lock in period of 8 months.plz guide

Advocate Siddharth D Magdum answered
As per law the deposit money which the landlord has taken has to be returned when the agreement is over or expired. The landlord has to return you the deposit which he has taken. He cannot withhold the same.

Q: What can be done if father is torturing me to get married

I m 24 yr old lady My father hv torturing me mentally as well as physically since last 2-3 yrs bt this tym he hv crossed all limits he is forcing me for marriage i denied for marriage bcoz yet i'v not completed my internship n i want to be a self made independent woman i want to finish my education first n then want to get settled financially then only i want to marry bt my father is not listening to me jst becoz of my age, last month only he tried to kill me bt my younger brothers stopped him , n nw 2dy he threatened me that he'll cut my hands n legs so that i cud nt go out or he'll direct kill me. So I'm constantly thinking to either leave home or suicide.. so plz some one help me n tell me wat shud i do nw..

Advocate Siddharth D Magdum answered
firstly try to convince your father that you wish to marry after getting financially settled. if he is not getting convinced then he cannot force you to marry with anyone without your consent and without your wish. you can approach to nearest police station if he is trying to cause harm to you.

Q: Procedure for maintenance for working wife and minor daughter.

My husband is not taking any responsibility of ours.He is not behaving good just because I am not giving money to him,he says as I am working,I should do whole expenses of home like rent,exp.related to me,daughter and grocery like everything just because I am working also expects me to do all the household work and quarrels so many time on these topics. And if I deny to do the expenses,he simply ignore both of us,mental torture he is doing,doesnt talk and behave properly and asks me to stay at village if i am not doing all expenses.He says that he cannot afford to stay in city One more important thing,he is ready to stay in village just because he is working in merchant navy,once he is back from ship,he is free full time so he can stay anywhere and he knows that as I am working,it would be difficult for me to leave the city I am so frustrated as he is torturing a lot to me,also I hav 25000/- pm salary and he is earning 125000/- pm,i m hindu

Advocate Siddharth D Magdum answered
you can initiate proceeding under section 125 of Criminal procedure code for maintenance. that is to look after you and your children. there is a legal obligation upon the husband to look after his wife and children.

Q: Husband claim alimony from wife in mutual divorce as wife is working

i have complete one year. I'm leaving with my parent since 5 month, my husband never provided me the money for my expenses due to that currently i'm working. 1. can my husband ask alimony from me as I m working as we are thinking of mutual divorce?? 2. Can I ask for alimony than also if i work from my husband??

Advocate Siddharth D Magdum answered
if you both are thinking of divorce by mutual consent then the choice will be yours in respect of alimony your husnband cannot claim alimony from you but you can claim Permanent alimony from him if you wish then.