Court passed judgment in DV case against me in my absence, what to do

Dear sir , I am Respondent and the Petitioner has been filed DVC in June 2015 as she req 30k pm Maintenance and shelter . I filed Divorce in 2010 at Family court and allowed in July 2015 and no charges should bear their own costs .Order passed by Dist court , She went to HC for appeal and got interm stay and waiting for listing till now , In DVC i submitted Stay from HC for all further proceedings by giving 5k pm as maintenance and not attending court due to stay as advocate also told me that no need to attend , I paid 7 months 5k pm to her bank account and in middle i asked to give joint account for to pay amount to my child also in court but she was not given till now , In this month 10th of march 2017 DVC judgement that 25k pm and 3lakhs has to pay , How the court judgement will give if i am not attended and in docket written ed as respondent was attended . I am not attended in last date! I was shocked that with out cross examination how can judgement will give ?