Procedure to file exparte divorce

When i came to know that my wife had relationship with somebody, quarrel started. She asked me to vacate the house. i asked for divorce. She filed a a case against me (498,506). She gave money to police to arrest me. My name and address everything they mentioned wrongly in the FIR. I got i bail. I vacated the house and city 8 years ago. she lied to my relatives that She withdrew the case. After some years we had discussion and she visited me few times. I also came to know that she didn’t withdrew the case. I asked to live with me But she refused. She is ready to visit me occasionally but not ready to live together. We had quarrel. So i decided to file a divorce case. I visited her address where she was staying but i came to know that she vacated the house. I phoned her she was not ready to tell her address. Meanwhile court has ordered to place the divorce notice advertisement in the paper. I dont know where she has been living for the last 8 years. Now lawyer say i will get ex-