prefiling,adultery proof so false cases threat

If wife is abusing and threatening with meand my family with DV cases for incidents more than 5years old and no evidence and other cases like theft of jewellery from joint locker as i went alone once, then she will say i go to sex workers, i ask for porno watching or doing unnatural sex , dont give her money though she is working etc then how to keep record that its planned by her to trap me what kind of evidences are sufficient like mailing these things to her or her parents , audio recording of same means she said it I tell that to her family members..On the other hand she is saying i will keep the child who is 12 years ..alternate she says i can still stay and do everything provided you give monthly money, do not stop me from having another man in my life as im physically not satisfied etc all absurd things..I do not want divorce now but want to drag the matter for 7 to 8 years and how to file restoration of conjugal rights as she staying with her parents, i hvadultery evi of her