Non consummated marriage of 2.5 years

I did arranged marriage at age 31 in 2016. My husband was 32, is impotent from day 1 of marriage. After many requests he went to doctors but was not serious and did not follow up with them. But since I had fallen in love with him I kept waiting thinking things will change. Emotionally also he is very closed up. Likes to hide his messages to other girls, emails, laptop etc. He has said many lies before marriage like he knows how drive, which he doesn't and he has enough savings to allow him to quit job to study, which he didn't and I had to support him financially for about a year. Now without any information to me after a fight over him hiding a girl's messages he has gone to stay with his parents without informing me anything. This is like mental cruelty. He made no contacts, only I kept calling him , went to meet him with my family. But it resulted in a fight. I want 22 lakhs plus gold that I spent on the wedding back, can I get it? Now we both are 34, and I have lost my fertile year