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How to divorce my abusive husband even if he doesn't want to?


08-Aug-2023 (In Divorce Law)
M in abusive mrg for 21 yrs. I pay my child's fee, home rent, bills, all expense for 21 yrs. Still abusd n torturd. He quits job evry 6 mnths; never gives single paisa at home. I suffer in my high-profile job as cant focus. No phy. rltnshp for last 10 yrs. He stayed alone in diff state despite WFH for more than 4 yrs. I was alone in new city to take care of my child n my job. He came home after losing job. Domestic violence, extra-marital. He terrifies us cleverly (GASLIGHTING n NARCISSISM).
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Answer #1
660 votes
you can file for a divorce on the grounds of cruelty and if he is not participating in the proceedings then the judge can exparte the matter and all the proceedings will happen as a one sided proceedings and you can get divorce from him.
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Answer #2
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Dear Madam, Such incidents are many in this recent times. You may restrain your husband to enter into your house and lodge complaint with Police and also Domestic Violence case against him. If you are lenient towards him then there are chances of committing similar acts by your husband towards you and your children.
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Answer #3
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in such cases, you can file a case fir maintenance for children, and apply for judicial seperation or divorce. criminal cases you can file but as you are already burdened with so much difficulty hence you can avoid that and stay along with children and ask maintenance. thank you.
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