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help in matrimonial issue between husband and wife


03-Oct-2023 (In Divorce Law)
I am married from last 3 years. After a year of love affair we got married. It's the 2nd marriage for her  and she is 10 years older than me as well. She has twin kids and both are studying in class 11th in Dehradun. Initially it was difficult to convince the kids about our marriage, but after a lot of effort we were able to convince them and my family as well.As a man I wanted to be a father of my own kid. We discussed about it. Consulted a doctor as she is 43, and I personally don't wanna take any risk on her health. Medically we both are fit to be parents according to the doctor.Last year she conceived. We were very happy and planning our life ahead. But suddenly things got messy. She did an abortion with out my knowledge.We get into fights for this.When we talk about this she comes up with these two points.-What the society will say or think about us?-What our kids will think as they are almost in the adolescence phase?nI am reaching out for any suggestion or help from law prospe
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Answer #1
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1. Legally speaking, you have right to have a baby. 2. On the same time, she also has legal right to have choice whether to conceive or not and you can not force her. 3. Though it is a cruelty on her part as the purpose of any marriage legal procreation of chlid, this is why a person enters into the institition of marriage.
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Answer #2
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just simply say her where were the society when u got married for the second time.. where is the society when she fall in love with you... what if society or her children or children wife/husband in future will not support her...?? you will be there in every situation and will face everything 2gether..nd if you both will gonna plan a baby that baby will be yours mean you and ur wife....nd that baby will support for sure.... bcz her children of previous husband will not accept u as a father nd still they don't consider u as their biological father...
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Answer #3
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Sorry to hear what you are going through. You as a couple should go for counseling and talk this matter out. We can refer you both to therapists and that will help. If even after this she does not budge an inch then it is better to get separated so that you can take your life ahead with someone who has the same thought process. For other details & one on one conversation you can contact us.
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Answer #4
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If you can explain me what kind of relief do you want then I can help you in a better way Like do you want me to explain what kind of cases you can file against your wife or anything to make it better
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