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Want to break my engagement and get married to girlfriend


11-Sep-2023 (In Family Law)
I am engaged 6 months back and my marriage is fixed on 30nov, but still I love my girlfriend. I am not able to forget her how hard I try. Due to family pressure I agreed for engagement. Later I realised my mistake , now I am deeply in Love with my girlfriend. I have informed my fiancee and her family about this , they are fully opposing me . My family members are afraid that they cant face the insult.No matter how much I tried to convince my parents they are not agreeing now. Since I have agreed to engagement now they are asking me to get married. My girlfriend situation: She informed in home the she loves me , due to caste difference they are not agreeing at all . They have even threatened her that they will die and even beaten her . They still dont know about my engagement.Only my girlfriend knows. If I have to marry my girlfriend I have to ready to see my parents face all the insults in the society. Thing is even my girlfriends parents are not supporting. What to do now?
Answers (2)

Answer #1
586 votes
Out of law it's a dignity morality and responsibility..see whether the law says only rule and regulations society says culture and traditions but As a human being have a different thinking but can't face it in society ..but one thing can do lodge the threatening complaint any problems contact near advocates

Answer #2
864 votes
Your's is a very confusing state of mind. At this point you should decide whom you want to marry and stay rest of your life. If you go to make your parents happy then you have to spend your whole life with sadness, you can't neglect your parents but you should convince them that you can't live without the girl whom you have loved and not interested in the marriage fixed by your family. So you have done a blunder engaging with other girl and if you cancel the marriage then that girl has to face embarrassment in society it will even lead problems for her future face problems to get another bride groom. Due to your fickle minded decision you have troubled every one. Be dare and make a choice search some good boy to your fiancee and cancel your engagement with her. Be bold with the family if they accept your girl friend its o.k otherwise get married to her and live your life your parents will join you shortly. Time is the best healer everything will be all right with you

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