Non consummated marriage 2.5 years

My husband is impotent from day 1 of marriage. So he would run from intimacy soon after marriage. After many requests he went to doctors but was not consistent in going to doctor. He did not follow up with the doctors. But since I had fallen in love with him I kept waiting thinking things will change. Emotionally also he is very closed up. Likes to hide his messages to other girls, emails, laptop etc. He has said many lies before marriage like he knows how drive, which he doesn't and he has enough finances to allow him to quit job to study, which he didn't and I had to support him financially for about a year. Now without any information to me after a fight over him hiding a girl's messages he has gone to stay with his parents without informing me anything. This is like mental cruelty. He made no contacts, only I kept calling him , went to meet him with my family. But he has no remorse. Can I get my money back that I spent on marriage, 22 lakhs plus gold. I am financially strong.