For child visitation and mother in law issue interference in our famil

I got married 16 years back. I have two daughters one eight years and other six years. From the first year of marriage, my mother in law too much interference in our family. My wife is like adult child follow only her mother instruction. My father in law not allowed in her house to spk. I several time helped financially for my sister in law education, marriage etc. Now my wife has gone to her mother house and not coming back and like her mother she is brain washing my daughters also and she dont like i meet them. I stay 2000 km away in another city. But she is not allowing my daughters to send them even for few days. My sister in law house also my mother in law spoiled with her interference and she separated with one child and stays with them. I am also sending expences taking care of kids necessity but still my wife is rude and shows me like daughters are her sole property and i am on mercy to meet them. Can i ask her to send daughters along with me for few days. Another question is