Father is a bossy and hitler and he is a mess to us

My father is a bossy and hitler person. He most of the time talks in a loud way and doens't respect my mom at all. He always does what he thinks is right and makes us do the same. Today again he shouted in a very bad manner to me and my mom. We where giving water to plants and he just shouted in a very bad manner. When he is there at home, no one can do what he/she wants to or express fully. He is creating a mental disturbance to us. He also told me that I won't be getting anything from him since I didn't make my career in government and civil service. He will give everything for some charity or something similar. Both mom and dad works in sbi. But my father comes from office and doesn't do a thing but my mom does every chores of house after coming. She cooks roti and other foods for my father's dinner. Cannot watch tv coz my father watches. My mom also cannot talk in a very comfortable way since father doesn't like her mother's family and doesn't want her to talk. There are so many th