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Do I need a family counselor to solve my disputes with wife?


27-Dec-2023 (In Family Law)
1. Married for 14 years and have two children. 2. Wife has gradually become excessively possessive. 3. She can't tolerate NO as a response to her requirement. 4. She wants to run our family like her mother or her sister does. 5. She doesn't tolerate me doing office work at home at all. While this is a norm now a days due to inadequate employment opportunities. 6. She simply denies to give me any time to improve myself professionally. If I want to read or learn something she starts shouting. 7. She isn't ready to listen NO when she asks for money; even if she wants to go shopping after 20th of a month. 8. She also convinces my children that I'm a villain. 9. She wants me to have only the good qualities of all men on the earth, but doesn't want to change herself. 10. Her family supports her in all these. 11. There is no one in my family to support me. Please help.
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Answer #1
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It is not only your problem. Every married man is facing this type of problems. They have enough time at home to think and some times get bored at home when all family members go out for work or study. The TV serials make them worst. Every married woman wants her husband should be in her possession and he should play what ever they say else there is a hell at home. There are two alternatives you have to make her happy. Give your salary to her maintain the home and you should be obedient husband if not possible then.....(act)...regarding working at home ....not yet advisable unless it is very urgent.
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Answer #2
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In the first instance you brought the attitude of her to her parents wait for some time even no change in her opt for family counselling near by you even though she doesn't change her mindset you send her to her parents for temporary period
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Answer #3
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As per your conversation you explain about your family issue in this case you need to meet personally and take counselling you and try to take counselling with your wife which will help you into your family issue.
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