Divorce without mutual consent married 2 years back harassment
18-Sep-2023 (In Family Law)
I am a Hindu. I got married 2 years back. My husband and my in laws treated me in a very bad way. I did not say anything to my in laws but when I used to discuss it with my husband, he used to defend them and provoke me. Then he will sit quietly with his phone when I used to tell bad words to him and his family, in complete anger. I fear he has taken recordings. He cheated me saying we are going to some trip and left me at my house. I don't have any recordings or evidence against the mental torture he his mother nd his sisters gave me. Please let me know if he can use my recordings against me? What can I do if I have no evidence against him. Please help.
The query as well the facts posted lacks clarity. What exactly is your query - is it that you want divorce or that you are worried that your husband may make use the recordings of your bad words to seek divorce? Any how, the court requires evidence as to marital cruelty to grant divorce. And evidence in this context is not necessarily video or audio recordings.
What you exactly want? Divorce or Save marriage. If save marriage try to understand the things properly and adjust the life and same time loose your anger. Why you shout and what you get from shouting . Only the fear of recording. Its your life. A happy marriage is a harbour in the tempest of life an unhappy marriage a tempest in the harbour of life, more and more people are realising the reality of their relationships, and accepting divorce as the rational choice to a better life necessary premised on better relationships.
A wife is considered as half the body of her husband, equally sharing the fruit of pure and impure acts:- whether she ascend the pile after him or survive for the benefit of her husband, she is a faithful wife.Please do understand that you entered in to new life and new situations. A life after Marriage is quite similar. There are anxieties of getting into a new life, adjustments with your husband, meeting new people such as your spouse’s friends/relatives/family, few of them you would like and few, not. And that’s absolutely fine. You would have to make certain adjustments and design a new schedule for yourself keeping in mind the timings/preferences of your spouse. But gradually you will feel good about it as you create precious moments through the journey and when its the end, you will miss it the most. Marriage forces you to realize that most precious things in life are non materialistic.
Communicate well
There will always be unexpected changes and challenges in life, and you and your spouse need to be able to work through them together. Be open and honest. There are going to be times that you need to bring up issues that might be uncomfortable or difficult, but you have to do it. Think about what you might say beforehand
Don’t use ultimatums in life
No one likes them, and they typically don’t get you what you want. Even though it might be satisfying at the time to issue an ultimatum, chances are you will regret it later. The kinds of statements you might regret later include.
It’s easy to get mad at the other person when they seem to be impinging on the freedom you had before you were married. And it’s often difficult to adjust to the fact that you always have someone waiting for you at home when you’re out with your friends. Think about your actions from the other person’s perspective, and ask yourself if you would like them to act in the way you are acting -- this can often dispel the anger you might feel at the person for wanting you to check in or let them know when you might be home.
Work to have a good relationship with your in-laws.
Many of us have in-laws who are very different from ourselves, and at times it’s difficult to see eye-to-eye. But it is important to have the best relationship you can with your father and mother-in-law. Think about the ways you can welcome them into your new family composed of you and your spouse
You can manage the things but you may prepare to do for that do it in wise and proper way. Every couple has different ideas about how to make money work best in their marriage. After all, you will not have the option of breaking up over a petty issue once you get married. And, patience is the key to a successful marriage. You become cautious of what you say. Obviously, you are new to this family, and anything wrong said by you might hurt them. You not only learn to convey your feelings in a calmer manner, but you also excel in the art of listening. Do not panic! These will soon become a part of your life and you will totally love your new role in life.
A wife is considered as half the body of her husband, equally sharing the fruit of pure and impure acts:- whether she ascend the pile after him or survive for the benefit of her husband, she is a faithful wife.Please do understand that you entered in to new life and new situations. A life after Marriage is quite similar. There are anxieties of getting into a new life, adjustments with your husband, meeting new people such as your spouse’s friends/relatives/family, few of them you would like and few, not. And that’s absolutely fine. You would have to make certain adjustments and design a new schedule for yourself keeping in mind the timings/preferences of your spouse. But gradually you will feel good about it as you create precious moments through the journey and when its the end, you will miss it the most. Marriage forces you to realize that most precious things in life are non materialistic.
Communicate well
There will always be unexpected changes and challenges in life, and you and your spouse need to be able to work through them together. Be open and honest. There are going to be times that you need to bring up issues that might be uncomfortable or difficult, but you have to do it. Think about what you might say beforehand
Don’t use ultimatums in life
No one likes them, and they typically don’t get you what you want. Even though it might be satisfying at the time to issue an ultimatum, chances are you will regret it later. The kinds of statements you might regret later include.
It’s easy to get mad at the other person when they seem to be impinging on the freedom you had before you were married. And it’s often difficult to adjust to the fact that you always have someone waiting for you at home when you’re out with your friends. Think about your actions from the other person’s perspective, and ask yourself if you would like them to act in the way you are acting -- this can often dispel the anger you might feel at the person for wanting you to check in or let them know when you might be home.
Work to have a good relationship with your in-laws.
Many of us have in-laws who are very different from ourselves, and at times it’s difficult to see eye-to-eye. But it is important to have the best relationship you can with your father and mother-in-law. Think about the ways you can welcome them into your new family composed of you and your spouse
You can manage the things but you may prepare to do for that do it in wise and proper way. Every couple has different ideas about how to make money work best in their marriage. After all, you will not have the option of breaking up over a petty issue once you get married. And, patience is the key to a successful marriage. You become cautious of what you say. Obviously, you are new to this family, and anything wrong said by you might hurt them. You not only learn to convey your feelings in a calmer manner, but you also excel in the art of listening. Do not panic! These will soon become a part of your life and you will totally love your new role in life.
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Indian law is a bit fragile yet effective in dealing girls issues. Before going deep into the issue u need to consider whether to proceed with a divorce decision or not. Whether a mediation talk can settle n sort things also needs consideration. Its a fact tat u r the only person who suffered all this n a decision to decide ur life relies with u only. Take it wisely.
so u dont have to producè any SOLID evidence before court for divorce. Yet there needs strong pleadings n claims over the same supported by ur deposition before court. Tat will be done n taken care by a civil lawyer.
Consult with one at the earliest n decide
hope am upto ur query
Indian law is a bit fragile yet effective in dealing girls issues. Before going deep into the issue u need to consider whether to proceed with a divorce decision or not. Whether a mediation talk can settle n sort things also needs consideration. Its a fact tat u r the only person who suffered all this n a decision to decide ur life relies with u only. Take it wisely.
so u dont have to producè any SOLID evidence before court for divorce. Yet there needs strong pleadings n claims over the same supported by ur deposition before court. Tat will be done n taken care by a civil lawyer.
Consult with one at the earliest n decide
hope am upto ur query
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