Wife filed DV case against the family and now not appearing in court

Sir, In 2015 december my wife left my house demanding a seperation from my parents .my father is a cancer patient so i cant do that . In 2016 jan she filed a DV , 498A case agnist me my parents and my sister who lives abroad asking 50lks I was ready appear for hearing i have the proof that it is a false case. At the same time out of the court the contacted me asking to leave my parents and live with her parents i refused that. then she didnt appear for the case and went abroad the case was dismissed. in 2017 jan i filed a case in family court for divorce(not mutual). The notice send by court is returned saying respondent is out of india.so the court issued order to publish in newspaper and stick notice in their house just before tht last month one advocat appear for her behalf of her mother and said she is working abroad and will come in nov 2017 this month judge was in leave so the case is posponded to jan 2018 .what if she didnt appear and her advocat came (christians)