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We file mutual divorce but wife still defame me infront of relative
27-Mar-2026 (In Divorce Law)
I file mutual divorce but now my wife don't stop her activity like, she call my relatives and neighbours and defame. She also connect my friends on social media to harassed me.
No buddy is taking action even lawyers asked me to ignore her but I can't tolerate this anymore.
May I do the same thing to her ?
How to stop her ? Mediation mai abhi usko 31st March ko 1st amount ka check mil jayega then 6 month baad baki amount milega clause mai sare cases wapas le liye h lekin harkate nhi ruk rhi uski
if during the mutual divorce process your wife is continuously posting on doing activity with your relatives and neighbours or on social media against you as you inform next meditation is fixed for 31st March in which you will give her amount you have option either mention one paragraph in your petition regarding such activity or take undertaking from her side
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Adv. Amit Pandey
Adv. Amit Pandey
Lucknow | 400+ Answers
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you can file a restraining application in the court you can file for contempt of courtt as she is disobeying court orders in mediation mein March 31 ko check amount milegaa after 6 months backing ka amount royeche sara cases isne wapis le rakhe hain
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Adv. Spiti Sarkar
Adv. Spiti Sarkar
Greater Noida | 700+ Answers
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Dear Client, I understand your situation. Harassment and defamation during a mutual divorce are serious issues. I advise you not to retaliate in the same way, as it could weaken your legal standing. Instead, we can document these incidents and bring them to the court's notice or issue a formal legal warning to stop such behavior.
To discuss the specifics of your mediation clauses and how to legally restrain these actions, please book an appointment for an in-person meeting or a telephonic consultation. This will help us plan the next steps effectively before your upcoming date on 31st March.
Regards,
Adv. Sudesh
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Adv. Sudesh Kumar
Adv. Sudesh Kumar
Agra | 50+ Answers
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Dear Client,
A mutual divorce is the smoothest path when both spouses agree to part amicably. Start with open, honest discussions on key issues: child custody (prioritize kids' well-being), alimony, asset division, and maintenance. Draft a fair agreement covering all—consult a lawyer early to ensure legality ��.
File a joint petition in Family Court under Section 13B of the Hindu Marriage Act (or equivalent). Expect a 6-month cooling-off period; attend court twice. Stay reasonable, avoid conflicts, and communicate neutrally—use mediators if needed .
Prioritize self-care: build a support team (therapist, financial advisor). Document everything, focus on SMART goals for your future. This process saves time, money, and stress—aim for collaboration over litigation.
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Adv. Shaikh Mohammad Shariq
Adv. Shaikh Mohammad Shariq
Lucknow | 25+ Answers
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You should not retaliate by doing the same, because that can harm your own legal position and may create problems for you later.
From what you have described, her actions of calling relatives, neighbours and contacting your friends to defame you can amount to harassment and defamation. Instead of ignoring it or reacting emotionally, take proper legal steps.
First, start collecting evidence. Keep screenshots of messages, call records, social media interactions and note down the names of people she contacted. This will be very important.
Second, you can send a legal notice through an advocate asking her to immediately stop such behaviour.
Third, you have the option to file a complaint for harassment or criminal intimidation if there are threats, and also a criminal defamation complaint. You may also consider a civil defamation case for damages.
Since your matter is already in mediation and settlement terms are fixed, you should inform the mediator or court about her conduct. Her behaviour can be placed on record and appropriate directions can be requested.
Also make sure that you strictly follow the settlement terms from your side, especially regarding payment, so that your case remains strong.
Act legally and calmly. That will protect you much better than reacting in the same way.
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Adv. Aprajita Shukla
Adv. Aprajita Shukla
Lucknow | 50+ Answers
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