10 years old married person want to divorce

Sir My age is 39 nd my marriage is 10 years old. I have 2 kids age 5 years and 9 years . I have very bad relations with my wife because there is no communication ,no understanding, no respect to each other, no love . My wife is rural nd so rustic type that she does not want to know her responsibilities and don't want to know change her living life style. Her behavior is too not good with my parents . I do job in a reputed infrastructure sector com. I want to divorce or live separate from my wife for avoid to quarrels or fighting that happens daily. So please advice me