Marriage promise ke liye physical relationship bnaye gye

510 votes

प्रतीत होता है कि लड़का और उसका परिवार केवल आर्य समाज सर्टिफिकेट के आधार पर संबंध बनाए रखना चाहते हैं, जबकि वैध विवाह से बच रहे हैं और आपको “इज्जत” के नाम पर मानसिक दबाव में रख रहे हैं। सबसे पहले, केवल आर्य समाज में कराई गई रस्म या सर्टिफिकेट अपने आप में पूर्ण वैध विवाह नहीं माना जाता, जब तक कि विवाह का विधिवत पंजीकरण (रजिस्ट्रेशन) न कराया जाए। यदि आपका विवाह कानूनन वैध नहीं है, तो आप उस संबंध को जारी रखने के लिए बाध्य नहीं हैं। यदि आपको डराया-धमकाया जा रहा है, या भावनात्मक रूप से दबाव बनाया जा रहा है, तो यह कानूनन गलत है। ऐसे मामलों में आपराधिक धमकी (criminal intimidation) और उत्पीड़न (harassment) के तहत कार्रवाई की जा सकती है। आपके पास निम्न विकल्प हैं: आप स्पष्ट रूप से इस संबंध को जारी रखने से मना कर सकती हैं और संपर्क बंद कर सकती हैं। यदि वे पुलिस की धमकी देते हैं, तो आप स्वयं उनके खिलाफ शिकायत दर्ज करा सकती हैं। लगातार दबाव या उत्पीड़न की स्थिति में महिला प्रकोष्ठ (Women Cell) या पुलिस से संपर्क करें। एक वकील के माध्यम से उन्हें लीगल नोटिस भेजकर आपको परेशान न करने के लिए रोका जा सकता है।

Advocate Madhvi Chopra LawRato

848 votes

Hi there, apko sabse pehle s.125 ke under maintenance case sath hi DV act ke under economical and mental domestic violence ka case karna chahiye. Iske baad bhi agar woh apke sath kuch aisa kare toh aap divorce file kar skte hain. Agar apka koi aur sawal ho toh mujhe contact karein.

Advocate Ishan Parashar LawRato

687 votes

i am sorry to hear you are having so much trouble with you in-laws and husband. aa pehle ek complaint darj kar vadijie. uske baad par legal action le sakte ho. if apko help cahiye jn subme me aapki puri maddad karne ke liye tiyar hu

Advocate Apoorva LawRato

539 votes

From your facts, it appears that the boy and his family are pressurising and threatening you in the name of marriage and police complaint, and have even created some false appearance of marriage (Arya Samaj certificate / documents) to coerce you. This is a serious matter and the law is clearly on your side. Firstly, no one can force you to marry against your will. Any such pressure, threats, or emotional coercion is illegal. If they are threatening you or your family to compel marriage, it can amount to offences such as criminal intimidation under the Bharatiya Nyaya Sanhita, 2023, and depending on facts, even harassment or extortion. Secondly, merely having an Arya Samaj certificate or keeping documents does not automatically make a valid marriage, especially if: there was no free consent, or proper legal formalities were not completed, or the document is being misused. If any false document is being used to show that a marriage has already taken place, you can challenge it and even initiate action for forgery and misuse of documents. Thirdly, your immediate steps should be: You should lodge a written complaint with the local police clearly stating the threats, pressure for marriage, and harassment to you and your family. If you fear further coercion, you can also seek police protection. Keep all evidence safe—messages, calls, documents, or any certificate they are relying upon. If needed, you can approach the court for protection orders restraining them from contacting or threatening you. Also, do not engage or negotiate under pressure. Such matters should be handled strictly through legal channels. In conclusion, you are not bound to marry, and any attempt to force or threaten you is illegal. You should act proactively by filing a complaint and protecting yourself legally before the situation escalates further.

Advocate Yuganshu Sharma LawRato

821 votes

Please share complete facts: date of marriage, nature of harassment by husband/in-laws, any dowry demand, physical or mental cruelty, current residence of the girl, and whether any complaint was made earlier. After reviewing facts, I will advise the best legal course of action.

Advocate Deepak Ranjan LawRato