Procedure to appeal in high court

Hi, I am a part time worker in a organization. My wife filed case using indian family law (Kudumba vankudimai sattam) and also seeking money (Jeevanamsam) to run her life even though she is rich. The case is happening for the past 10 years and judgement is going to be provided. But I am wishing to live with her, but all tries ends in vain. We are expecting that judgement will be released like to pay the arrears with some monthly amount for the past 10 years. I dont have that much of huge arrears amount to pay. I know we can re-appeal the judgement in high court. But, before re-appealing that I will be forced to pay the amount by the family court and then only I can re-appeal. is that true? Please confirm. I dont have such a huge amount, what can i do now? But still I am wishing to live with her, but she is trying to get money in her point of view.