Facing certain Issues of in laws at my marital home

Hi madam, I got married in 2010.. from starting itself we both houses (my mom home and in law home) got fight for some personal issues.. but I thought it will recover quickly but it not solved.. past 7years I am getting mental stress from my mother in law and father in law.. watever I do they r raising questions and whatever I don't do that too they r raising questions.. some times I feel depressed and no one can solve my problem.. for small small reasons they creating big problems and me and my husband suffering a lot and got fight with us.. this time they r torturing about my character.. so I decided I don't talk to them.. For that why she didn't talk and my husband said about my reason for not talking.. for that they told we always we will be like that. She have to adjust .. old aged person means like that Oly .. have to keep quiet.. u don't have a rights to ask a question to me.. they told to like this.. wat can I do for this.. pls give me a some suggestions about this issues..