Need legal advice on contested divorce. me and my wife are hindus

My wife never admits any of her mistakes and have never brought any arguments down with me itself. She lived a life by blaming others and have never sorried for anything and threatened me and my family saying you guys are making me to commit suicide and all. where in she has already drank some harmful liquid before marriage itself as she had fight with her mother. I found a note written by her saying me and my family is responsible for my death. she and her parents record what ever I speak to them they making me to shout back and recording it as evidence which i realized later point of time. on top of all this, she always complains as my parents are the problem for her living and she always wanted me to keep my parents away where my parents are 65+. I really cant live with a person who records everything and sharing it to her family. I thought thats a prob between huband and wife. more over she aborted our second child without my knowledge and her entire family is blaming me as that.