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Is suicide my last option? Wife not leaving and in-laws spreading lies


15-Oct-2023 (In Divorce Law)
Hi, I got married 3 months ago. Since then I am not at all happy due to multiple problems created by in laws and wife. I have to work for 14-15hrs a day and my doesn't let me sleep peacefully. She doesn't care about my health and tortures me by saying that I don't love her. Me and my parents are doing everything we can ranging from travel trips to buying her new dresses and what not. But still she complains my mom again and again due to which there is so much depression at my place. I got to know about my wife's affair which she continued even after engagement. I thought that might be the reason for which she is not accepting us. I told the same to my in-laws to talk to her and that we have full freedom if she wants to marry the other guy. But they have started spreading rumors in my entire family that we are torturing her. We are from very respected background and seeing all the allegations I have started getting suicidal thoughts. What shall I do?
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Answer #1
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No..No ..! Don't think in such trait way. If she has any affair with any third person why don't you make a complaint with the concerned police. if you are unable to bear her torture why don't you file a petition before an appropriate court with the help of an advocate.. Remember. Thoughts of sucide are meaninglessness. it's not a remedy. if you commit suicide, the matter of harassments and tortures will not be seized against your parents by your wife. then your parents have to suffer heavy degree in her hands as you were no more to defend them (i.e., you may escape from the alleged harassments and tortures by your wife and in-law by committing suicide but, your parents are always in her threats for ever and your parents have to bear the further consequences, torturers and harassments) So, please giveup such meaningless thoughts. approach the match makers/marriage elders or any elders and ask them to solve the issue. patience will deal in all situations. don't be panic. think wisely.
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Answer #2
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Suicide is not the option, you must brave to fight the situation. You must balance your professional life and family life. Spending money for her shopping is not the love and affection. You must spare some quality time with her. Follow this and she the magic.
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