Awaiting divorce guy - matrimonial profile

859 votes

Well, if remarriage with that Man is not possible, then kindly move ahead in your life, if that Man has not engaged with you physically by promising you to marry and now not breaking his promise intentionally to marry you, then you can do anything against him legally.

Advocate Pankaj Bajaj LawRato

817 votes

Your dilemma is understandable, as remarriage requires careful consideration of both legal and emotional aspects. Here are the key points to consider and actions you may take: 1.      Current Legal Status: Since the divorce is not finalized, legally, the man is still married. This limits the possibility of remarriage at this stage, as bigamy is a punishable offense in India unless the divorce decree is granted. 2.      Property and Settlement: The wife demanding 80% of his properties seems excessive, especially since she is working and financially independent. His willingness to provide a flat and ₹25 lakhs for his son appears reasonable, as courts usually consider the child’s welfare and the earning capacity of both parents. If mediation has failed, the matter will now be decided by the family court, which typically ensures a fair division based on facts, contributions, and needs. 3.      Domestic Violence Case: The domestic violence case could be an additional complication, possibly used as leverage in the divorce or property settlement. It needs to be handled carefully. 4.      Your Dilemma: Asking him to sacrifice all his properties may not be a practical solution, as it could leave him financially insecure, and the law does not require him to give up everything. Consider whether you are prepared to enter into a relationship with someone whose legal matters are unresolved and could take more time to conclude. His refusal to comply with your suggestion indicates his priorities, which may need alignment with your expectations. 5.      Practical Advice: Delay Commitment: Wait until his divorce is legally finalized and all legal disputes are resolved. Assess Compatibility: Reflect on whether his current situation aligns with your values, expectations, and long-term goals. Seek Legal Clarity: If you wish to proceed, consult a family lawyer to understand the potential implications of marrying someone with such ongoing issues.

Advocate Kiran Ashok Gangurde LawRato