Advise on Divorce filed from my Wife Side with some conditions..

Sir, I m facing 498a,DV12,125, cases from last 4-5 years, No child is born. I hv not filed any case,not divorce too. All compromise/settlement efforts failed. My wife side is rigid on their part not to let me go from cases and get me punished at any cost. Now from last 2 months they are asking us for 32 lacs and she will give me divorce.I m asking them to go with compromise deed to clear all cases than I agreed on 32 lacs. But they want only divorce not ready to take off FIR and 498a cases.Finally wife filed divorce case by her own. I got news she is getting married after taking divorce. Note: my 498a, 323, 34 etc is on final stage, only arguments are pending. hardly 2 months decision will be there from lower court. 1. Is it good for me or not? 2. Should I give statement in court to allow her to take divorce or what should I do? 3. What will happen to my FIR and 498a cases if she takes divorce and gets married? 4. What is best advisable from your side? Give me your expert advice