girl child custody. Both parents financial condition weak.

Request you to know on the following. If the petitioner remains absent after counseling since we have brought to the notice about her illicit relation and leaving with another married man and also while filing the case the petitioner was wrongly mentioned her marriage date and she remains absent from the last so many hearings. (6 times). In such case, how the proceedings are being carried. Regarding the child custody, we have got enough documents viz a. withdrawing the child from nursery without informing and sent to her parents place. The environment of herself and parents both financially week. What to do?