Procedure in case bank not cooperating for non payment of amount

Hello sir, i am sandeep saxena from indore, due to lost of my job in last november, i was unable to pay my credit card payment full payment, although i always made their minimum due amount, but due to some delay or other reason bank added delay panelty hence my outstanding increased by 2.50 lacs while my actual expences against the card is only 1 .25 lacs only, now the bank people continuesly call me and misbehaving with me, i already visited bank and show explained them my problem, now i also vot new job, but they continuesly threaten and send their executive to my house and also misbehaving with my old paraents and my wife and asking the address of my new employer and want to discuss with my new employer regarding my outstanding. I am in depression now coz i thought that when my new employer know about my outstanding of credit card, he may be terminate me again. I already told them i need some more time to pay your outstanding and made a payment of 76000 but my outstanding is same.