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What to do i do not want to live with my wife but wants child custody


21-Jun-2023 (In Family Law)
Hi, Me and Wife both work in big MNC. We didnt shared good understanding since begnining. Both have short temper which often created Verbal violence on numerous occasion. The issue is my wife doesnt want any physical relation since begnining. Although we do have one child which eventually only coz I asked for the physical favour everytime and she wanted a child. Recently I got to know that she was liking someone else in her office. When I confronted her, she was angry on me. As of now, i have burden of various loans which I took to make her happy with the lifestyle she wanted. I always do more expense than i can earn for family which has taken my financials for toll. I dont want to live with her anymore not even a single day. But I cant leave my baby since I am very emotional and attached to her. Please suggest.
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Answer #1
832 votes
Hello sir , the custody of child below 7 years will stay with mother .. However , you may get visitation rights .. It is advisable to file for divorce on the grounds of mental and physical cruelty ...
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Answer #2
725 votes
Since the two of you are both are not happy with each other and it seems that two of you want to live your separate way, talk and file for divorce and settle for custody, if not mutual then through court for custody.
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Answer #3
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if she also thinks the same and you both would mutually agree for the divorce then the issue is the child only, I advise you to talk on the issue in a broad manner and try to conclude the marital part of your life if no chances of continuing the same are left.
still as per my thinking DIVORCE SHOULD BE THE LAST OPTION.
as far as the custody of the child is concern better to resolve the issue mutually to avoid any litigation as such litigations had an extremely bad effect on a child.

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Answer #4
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There should be meeting of elders not only both of you. Give a chance to say every thing in the meeting in front of elders/parents of both side. Say everything what one thing for others and one expect from other. If there is a chance to talk with each other mutually, it will be good, Listen and think over it to improve oneself to save the family life and life of child. If you love your child might it be possible that your wife also like and love the child and she may also want to keep the baby with him. Think over the consequence of divorce. It is a man dominated society and so the obligations also. You are already in financial burden and if you take the decision;on of divorce, you may have to pay compensation or maintenance for her living and expenses for child. So don't take a decision in a hurry. If there is no chance of living together, then you have take a strong decision, what may be the consequences. It have to be decided by both of you keeping in mind the rights and duties. Marriage is a name of sacrifice and love for your spouse and children.
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