Short tempered wife with uncontrolled anger issues.

My wife is has become very short tempered and have uncontrolled anger issues. She is very over possessive and wants me to stay with her 24*7. I go to office and come back without having any sort of social life at all. She has issue of me meeting or even talking over phone with my friends or any of my relative. She forced me to live separately and now I am in deep financial crises as I had to take loan to buy a home for us. Now she has made my life hell and till the time I stay quite and doesn't oppose and keep helping her in her daily household work, she is fine. Despite of being tired from office she sometimes asks me to do household work. I am in deep trouble now. I have a daughter also of 1.5 years whose custody I want so that she doesn't become same like her. Please help me. I have some recordings of conversation with her also where she is shouting and speaking ill with me.