My wife don't like my parents, she wants to stay with her parents

Since after my marriage, due to our jobs we had to stay in X-city, my wife cleverly took home just beside their parents home it's been 2.5 years due to lockdown I came to my home she also came after one month, after coming to my home always she insist we I'll go there(x-city), after 3 months her family came and took her to their home, in fact my wife don't give respect to anybody, don't know cooking, my questions are? 1) my wife scolded my mother(i have recorded audio) since she don't like my parents at all and don't want to stay at my home town 2) my wife parents are guiding my wife that strictly seperate your husband from his parents 3) My in-laws are scaring me like we file case against you so you will lose ur life they are telling(this one also recorded) 4)my wife took a knife and scared me like I will die it will come on to you(for this I don't have proof) Let me know that, what to do in this case 4) Can i apply for government job, if 498A is filed against me Or am I not eligibl