Issue with Husband. No outcome. What should i do about it?

Hi, I married last year, my husband have female best friend with whom he share every thing even in starting of our marriage some issues take place because of her & he shared that to her also. As a wife i expect our life must have some privacy but everytime he let me down. I shared this issue with my in-laws also but they support to him only. I have seen them chatting till late night before marriage & after marriage they both chat whole day whenever they gets the time. I m fed up now..even i discuss things with that lady that i cant accept u his friend, nothing outcome.

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117 votes

every married life need some private space in your case it seems to me that your husband's behavior i.e. extra friendly with his colleague or uncaring attitude causing depression to you
legally its amount to mental cruelty but such issues can solved by mutual talk or understanding
it can be a ground for divorce but that is last resort of the problem.

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132 votes

Dear Madam,

Do you suspect any kind of relation between your husband and the other lady ? Is your husband good and respectful towards you otherwise ? If the only problem you have is that your husband talks to the other lady the best way would be to approach the mediation center located in the nearest district courts and to try to solve the matter amicably .

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131 votes

In case you want to take harsh route, then file a complaint in women cell and a petition for maintenance and domestic violence alleging that husband is having extra marital affair. Get his phone details out and take screen shot of his watsapp chats as a proof and show them when required.

As of now be cool and calm just collect all incriminating evidence and then take such steps.


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