How to override stay order from supreme court in divorce case filed

I filed for matrimonial case divorce against my wife in bangalore family court. But case is given stay order by Supreme Court. My wife is public banking job professional and is working in pune but our native place is in bihar. We also have a kid aged 4 years and we are living separately from 4.5 yearsnShe is not ready to stay and is not contacting me but she is also not leaving me easily and causing all possible problems for me and my family. My parents are very old and dependent on me as am only son. She never treated us with respect and always fighting arguing for petty issues. She is not even ready for mutual divorce we tried to talk but she and her parents rudely disconnected and asked us to do whateverWhat can I do next ? How to proceed fuether in this case?Can I file for getting the stay order removed from this case so that further proceedings happen in my divorce case which I applied from bangalore?? Or is there any other case I should file against her to safeguard us?