Can I send cruelty notice to my wife before she file false 498a.

Dear Sir/Madam, I got married 4 years back and issues with wife from the day one. She always used to say she wanted to marry his relative who is a rich man but unfortunatly married me, she does not want me to talk or stay with my parents, threaten me that she wanted suicide and always suspect me and link with other girls with no reason. She even braten me 4-6 times. 4 months back i informed my family regarding this. Even after 10 times counciling given by both side elders in this 4 months sistuation is same and finally she attempted suicide. We wrote property share agriment and applied for mutual divorce. After 40days she came back and wanted to stay with me which i am denying. I opposed her in police station, in family counceling conducted in DSP office and now she filed a false DV in district level women and child welfare office. I attend on 20thOct but she was absent by informing her relative was died. Can I send cruelty notice to her before she file false 498a.