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My Wife does not allow me to see my child.


16-Mar-2023 (In Divorce Law)
My wife left away my house almost 20 months ago and since then not returning home by giving several excuses. I went several times spending money to another state as she lives in diff hometown, even stayed there with her parents and served them for four months but yet no positive outcome, she also does not allow me to see my child on a video and have blocked me everywhere and have cutoff all lines of communication nor her parents show any interest in our unification. I am really worried about welfare of my child as she herself stated that she cant take care of the child but in her EGO she was spoiling my infants and my life as well.
Answers (7)

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1. What’s happening legally right now?

  • If no court case is filed yet, your wife is currently keeping your child without a formal custody order. This is not “illegal,” but it’s also not final. You have equal parental rights under Indian law until a court decides otherwise.

  • Since she has blocked communication and is refusing access, this can amount to denial of visitation rights and may weigh against her if you approach court.


2. What can you do to protect your rights and your child’s welfare?

Option A: File a Petition for Custody / Visitation

  • Under Guardian and Wards Act (GWA), 1890, you can file for custody or at least visitation rights in the Family Court.

  • Courts generally consider the best interest of the child, not just parental ego. If you can prove she admitted she “cannot take care of the child,” this is significant evidence.

Option B: File for Restitution of Conjugal Rights (RCR)

  • Under Section 9, Hindu Marriage Act, you can file RCR if you want her to return to the matrimonial home.

  • This is mostly used to show your bona fides (that you tried to reunite), but it’s not a guaranteed solution to bring her back.

Option C: Mediation via Court

  • Family courts will almost always push for mediation first. Sometimes, spouses agree to reunion or structured visitation during mediation.


3. What if she continues to block access to your child?

  • A court can issue interim orders for visitation even during trial.

  • If she disobeys a court order, she can face legal consequences (including contempt of court).

  • Document everything: screenshots of her blocking you, messages where she refused access, her statement about not being able to care for the child.


4. Can she legally stop you from seeing your child right now?

  • No, she cannot permanently deny you access unless there is a specific court order granting her sole custody (which you said doesn’t exist).

  • Right now, she’s just doing it de facto, but you need to formalize your rights through court to stop this unilateral behavior.


5. What about child welfare concerns?

  • If you genuinely believe the child is being neglected, you can bring it to the court’s attention urgently when filing for custody.

  • The court may order an inquiry by a child welfare officer to verify the living conditions.


Next Steps:

  • Consult a family lawyer immediately. A good lawyer can draft a custody/visitation petition within a few days.

  • Collect evidence (messages, calls, admissions) to strengthen your case.

  • Do not engage in harassment or threats — remain calm and let the legal process protect you.

If you’d like, we can connect you with a verified LawRato family lawyer who specializes in custody and matrimonial disputes. 

Answer #1
771 votes
sorry to know about your situation. you should file a case before family court for restitution and in it ask for custody of child also. before doing this, you will have to send legal notice to her demanding to resume cohabitation.
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Answer #2
843 votes
Hello Sir! Initially you should send her legal notice through advocate calling her to cohabit with you and in the same notice ask her to let you meet or have conversations with your daughter over audio as well as video calls. wait 15 days for reply. if she doesn't reply you can proceed with court cases
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Answer #3
902 votes
Then file a Case of Divorce. Parallely file a Case of Child Custody. You have to prove how Child's future is not safe with her & you can take care of child quite well. Moreover, you can afford all the expenses for the Child's Welfare.
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Answer #4
625 votes
you can file a case of restitution of conjugal rights of you want to bring her back to stay with you and if she doesnt come you will automatically get divorce from her and also you can file a case of child custody where in after filing you will get court order to atleast meet your child once in a week and that she cannot deny that
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Answer #5
993 votes
Just you have to file application in Mumbai court as per procedure of criminal procedure code and court will issue Warrant to keep present before court also file divorce petition on the ground of cruelty and mental egony.
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Answer #6
855 votes
You may file for restitution of conjugal rights and child custody in Mumbai if both of you last resided together in Mumbai. She may still have an option to get the said petition transfer to Kerala by filing application in supreme court.
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