My husband could not get erections or got mild erections for 4 5 seconds, so marriage never consumma

My husband could not get erections or got mild erections for 4 5 seconds, so marriage never consummated. It's been 2.5 years. I got married in Dec 2016. he went to 4 doctors after I put lot of pressure on him, but never followed up with any one, no medicine had effect and he never went sincerely for treatment. After 1 year I had told his mother, hoping she will guide her son but she after few months blamed my vagina being tight and her son is physically fit. I am able to insert 3 fingers and vibrator. I hid from my family for 2 years hoping things will get better. He had quit his job after 6 months of marriage for 9 months, lying he had savings so I had to pay all bills. He flirts on texts with a married woman from initial days if marriage despite me objecting several times. Finally 3 months back left me cut contacts and is with his parents. I have audio of him confessing his ED and photos of his reports indicating his ED. Can I get the 22 lakhs I spent on wedding and plus gold given