birth and death and long lifetime

sir As per my marriage act taken in 2008, all marriages are made in heaven but my marriage made in hell as per judge because my family story always coming to my mind and disturbing me. Is it related to the legal and hindu marriage law and act or against the problems of everybody. Please advice as I am bothered too much and might end up in . also, do you know the world has planets when you plan and stars are born and the sufferings continue if you don't do proper judgement at the appropriate time and savings don't help much. if you control the population will it not result in war? I want everyone to live for as much happiness in good terms as possible. Is there a way? please help.