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What is the remedy against abusive father


06-Jul-2023 (In Family Law)
I am a 22 year old female completed my degree. We are 2 girls for our parents my sister got recently married after very difficult problems. Father abuses us verbally and emotionally. In the beginning when we were small we use to think it our mistakes but year by year it was going on increasing before he use to beat us harshly also now he does not beat us. But he uses bad words and he is not allowing me to do further studies he always tells we all are wasting his money. He is forcing me to get married. He tortures us emotionally and uses very bad words he compares us with other children. He always says boys are good. He always say girls child's are waste and girls are born to serve men and girls are born to do work. He always uses my cousin brother's names with me and tortures me telling that whether I want enjoy and sleep with them. So many years I beared this Torture. I want to be independent and get out of this house and live alone and go for job. What should I do for this?
Answers (2)

Answer #1
654 votes
Hi,

You can immediately approach State Commission for Women, I presume that you are from Karnataka and have mentioned below the address of the Karnataka State Commission for Women

"No.107, Kaveri Bhavan, 1st Floor, KHB Building, K G Road, Bengaluru, Karnataka 560009"

Further if you are in Bangalore you can approach Vanitha sahavani, which is located in the premises of Bangalore Commissioner office in Infantry Road.

These two forums would be able to provide you with quick relief against your father.

If you are not from Karnataka, there would be similar organisations who support women in distress you may approach them.

These organisations are managed by qualified counsellors and are liberal with the procedures.
Answer #2
864 votes
It is not a legal issue anyhow, how your mother reacts for your father's abnormal behavior.Well don't waste your time by thinking about him much try to search for job as per your qualification and try to search in other place where your father can't reach you regularly or properly and continue your study if possible through correspondence and continue your studies also simultaneously and continue your life with the positive approach with a certain goal and achieve it. Meantime if you think you want to marry then inform your father they will arrange for it and it is also another way to come our from your troubles. You can even contact Women Welfare and Rights Organisation where they will help you counsel you and show some ways which will make your life meaningful. All the best.

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