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Problem with in-laws and husband. And husband extra marital affairs
25-Sep-2023 (In Family Law)
We got married since last 6yrs. And we have a girl child 3.5yrs old.love marriage without parents consent. Later in laws agreed, and even my parents. First 2 yrs my in laws used to abuse me with their words for not bringing any money. And they started to influence my husband that since he married me, my in laws property will not give to him. I am working in an Mnc and earning 50k per month. Still they have a concern. After kid is born, I had a normal delivery and it took 8months for me to recover. Within that time he bought his colleague to home and as soon as I sleep they both used to spend time. After few days I sent her out. Later his parents came and stayed with us for 6months,every day they used to abuse me and tell negatively to my husband, he used to shout and beat me as soon as he come from ofc. After in laws left he shifted home near to his another girl friend home, and used to come during weekend. Meanwhile forced me to go for on-site, I went to Singapore stayed their for 11m
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1) From your query , it is clear that your husband is having extra marital affairs and is not likely to ensure survival of marriage.
2) So in your best interests you should take a decision either to continue in marriage (and suffer the insults) or divorce him .
3) If you intend to divorce him, you should accordingly plan on the finances(Alimony, Maintenance and compensation for the domestic abuse suffered by you) , child custody and child's property rights.
4) Also you can also file 498A and Sec 3 and 4 of Dowry prohibition act and have your inlaws in jail for quite some time for the domestic abuse.
5) You also need to collate the evidences of him having extra marital affairs, details of his salary, properties etc (of course discreetly) so that, in the event of you deciding to opt for divorce proceedings, all these come in handy and you can get your divorce very easily and without wastage of time and use these evidences to nail your husband and in laws.
6) There is no point in showing sympathies for your in laws and your husband as for them the marriage is a commercial contract where as for you marriage is sacred.
Hope this helps.
1) From your query , it is clear that your husband is having extra marital affairs and is not likely to ensure survival of marriage.
2) So in your best interests you should take a decision either to continue in marriage (and suffer the insults) or divorce him .
3) If you intend to divorce him, you should accordingly plan on the finances(Alimony, Maintenance and compensation for the domestic abuse suffered by you) , child custody and child's property rights.
4) Also you can also file 498A and Sec 3 and 4 of Dowry prohibition act and have your inlaws in jail for quite some time for the domestic abuse.
5) You also need to collate the evidences of him having extra marital affairs, details of his salary, properties etc (of course discreetly) so that, in the event of you deciding to opt for divorce proceedings, all these come in handy and you can get your divorce very easily and without wastage of time and use these evidences to nail your husband and in laws.
6) There is no point in showing sympathies for your in laws and your husband as for them the marriage is a commercial contract where as for you marriage is sacred.
Hope this helps.
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