Need freedom to be have equal opportunity and not be a housewife

I'm 21 years old female.My parents are big time egoists, who think I am some sort of their property. They try to manipulate me, play mind games and try to persuade me in everything they want. That starts from what I should wear to when I should sleep. My father is a control freak, to an extend he has a joint account for salary with my mother. I am grounded, not allowed to pursue masters, even when I am ready to work on my own and provide a decent living for myself. I want to emancipate myself. They have threatened me for life. They want to get rid of me by marrying me. Have taken my phone.