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miss-use of IPC from wife, what remedy do i have ?


08-Dec-2023 (In Family Law)
Hi SIr, I m married and its being only 2yrs. one day Me and my wife had a small miss-understanding and their parents took her away. While leaving she said "I know how to leave without you". Her Parents said " I will not let my child with you". I never called them. She tried calling around end of 3rd month, I did not pick her call. After 3 months they went directly police station with false complaint saying I had beaten her and sent her away from home. Me and My father went to station. And they tried to scare us by telling police to file FIR. We did not bother, Again after 3 months they came back saying to police station again saying, My daughter was harassed for salary. We now took them to Mediation centre. There she is not even accepting truth/mistake. She is not even giving commitment like she will not repeat these things again. My parents say to divorce her, bcoz of lack of trust on her and her parents. Do we have any law how to handle these things, feel like I m spoiling her life
Answers (4)

Answer #1
710 votes
Dear sirs,
If you can establish the grounds of Divorce including cruelty, you can seek the court remedy for Decree of Divorce. You can also settle your disputes through mediation process.

Regards,
Sadanand
Answer #2
824 votes
These are mostly ego issues and grow more with the intervention of parents and in-laws. I suggest you go through counselling to understand what exactly you both want. Sometimes divorce and separation can be a solution but it has its own demerits. Approach a good lawyer who can make both of you come to an understanding. If you cannot find out solution to your problems you may have to go for separation.
Answer #3
649 votes
I understand your concern and empathize with you. A striking feature in your query that caught my attention is when you quote "feel like I am spoiling her life", this clearly indicates you want to mend the things and its parents and external influence that is causing the harm. There are multiple ways to deal with the same, rubbing each others ego will lead to disputes and further challenges. The environment in the mediation center is very different compared to that of one-to-one counselling, trust in this matter seems to have been lost and that needs to be regained before moving on, writing and committing on a piece of paper cannot mend the heartache, its important that you need a good listener to spend quality time with you both and bring back the life on the normal track. You just have a two year old kid and I am sure you are thinking of the future. I suggest you for professional counselling to resolve the issue, and I'm sure things will sway favorably for the betterment of all three lives. You may wish to read my blog on counselling to understand the steps involved... http://lawyersonia.blogspot.in/2016/06/marital-and-pre-marital-counselling-in.html

Remember, divorce or separation is a hasty step, think a hundred times before choosing to opt separation, try all possible ways to establish clarity and understand each other. All the best ...

Regards,
Sonia Rajesh
Answer #4
908 votes
As per your query my advice is kindly come to a mutual understanding with family concern. If you people are failed to take good relationship then take a advice from better Advocate. Kindly take family into consideration. Thank you

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