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Husband is not taking care of family and mentally harasses me


20-Jan-2023 (In Family Law)
Husband does not bother of family(wife and 2 kids) since 3 years. We are married since past 10 years.. he always demanded money from my house for daily chores. Now he is living in some hostel in Cochin, I came to UAE for job and taking care of myself and kids with my salary.He accuses me of having some affair here and gives mental torture to me and my parents.Life has become miserable because of his attitude..even my 2 kids are suffering . What to do?
Answers (4)

Answer #1
734 votes
महोदया,
आपके प्रश्नानुसार आप एक योग्य पढ़ी लिखी महिला है। मेरे समझ से आप अपने बच्चो की देखभाल अच्छी तरह से कर सकती है। आपने अपने पति के बारे मे पूरी जानकारी नही दी है जिससे आपके वैवाहिक जीवन की समस्या के बारे मे बारीकी से समझा जा सके।
जैैसे कि 1. आपके पति शादी के पहले या शादी के बाद क्या करते है?
2. क्या आपके पति के माता पिता जीवित है और यदि हैंं तो क्या करते है?
3.आपके पति के स्वभाव मे परिवर्तन अचानक कब आपको दिखा ?
4. आपके पति का आपके बच्चोंं के प्रति कैसा बर्ताव है?
आदि बहुत सी जानकारी होने पर ही कुछ निर्णय लिया जा सकता है।
आप अपने पति के खिलाफ परिवार परामर्स केन्द मेंं मानसिक रूप से प्रताड़ित एवंं चारित्रिक संंदेह कर परेशान करने के लिए शिकायत कर सकती है हो सकता है वहाँँ से आपकी समस्या का समाधान हो सके।
यदि परिवार परामर्स केंंद्र से न्याय न मिले तो आप पुलिस की मदद लेने FIR दर्ज कर सकती है। पुलिस IPCके Section 498 के तहत complain दर्ज कर कार्यवाही करेगी।
यदि आपको लगता है कि परिस्थियोंं मे कोई सुधार नहींं होने वाला है तो आप अपने पति से तलाक के लिए आवेदन किसी वकील की सलाह से Family Court मेंं आवेदन उपरोक्त साक्ष्योंं का हवाला देते हुए दायर कर सकतींं है।
और ज्यादा जानकरी लिए आप हमेंं सम्पर्क करेंं।
Answer #2
809 votes
Your living apart, is ground for his suspicion. You can't leave your job to clear his suspicion and he doesn't seem to change, better you continue your job and take care of yourself and your children.

If he does not change his attitude then there will be no way except living away from him and paying no heed to his false allegations.

You can file case for maintenance against him but it may happen that you may get far lesser amount of maintenance than your current needs.

For avoiding suffering of you and your children, you may proceed for divorce as last resort only on exhausting all other measures.
Answer #3
687 votes
It is the duty of husband to maintain his wife, children and parents if the person is running away from discharging his duty towards you. Then there is a provision of section 125 Crpc for ordering maintainence for wife, child etc
Also if he is harrsasing you there is domestic violence act and section 498a IPC for cruelty
Answer #4
707 votes
You can file a complaint before a competent court against the torture and ill treatment done to you by your husband. You can apply for maintenance also from your husband under Section 125 of the criminal procedure code.

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