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Procedure for divorce where wife refuses to cooperate with husband


04-Jul-2023 (In Divorce Law)
we have a arranged marriage in the year 2006 and presently we have 2 kids, one 9 yrs boy & a 5 year girl. Unfortunately we both never had a good and healthy relations with each other because of her worst attitude towards all of my family members. Even with all facilities available from our end she never changes her attitude and things getting worse day by day. Me & my family tried various time to make her understand the family values but all failed. I now strongly feeling that the same is greatly impacting on my kids mind & all this are disturbing me & my family alot. That's why now I need to saperate for the sake of everyone's future. Unable to describe in full but there are lot of things which let me to choose this path. Pls help me by suggesting the proper solution & the proper way to file the case.
Answers (3)

Answer #1
568 votes
There are two ways for divorce:
1. mutual consent.
2. Petition by Husband/Wife

mutual consent
The process of dissolution is started by filling a petition for divorce by mutual consent. The petition is supported by affidavits from both parties which signify their consent. This is the first motion petition which is presented in the court of Civil Judge senior Division. The petition contains a joint statement by both the parties that they have not been able to live together thus should be granted divorce by the court.


however in other condition sec 13 of hindu marriage act applies

(1) Any marriage solemnized, whether before or after the commencement of this Act, may, on a petition presented by either the husband or the wife, be dissolved by a decree of divorce on the ground that the other party-

(i) is living in adultery; or

(ii) has ceased to be a Hindu by conversion to another religion; or

(iii) has been incurably of unsound mind for a continuous period of not less than three years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition; or

(iv) has, for a period of not less than three years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition, been suffering from a virulent and incurable form of leprosy; or

(v) had, for a period of not less than three years immediately preceding the presentation of the petition, been suffering from venereal disease in a communicable form; or

(vi) has renounced the world by entering any religious order; or

(vii) has not been heard of as being alive for a period of seven years or more by those persons who would naturally have heard of it, had that party been alive; or

(viii) has not resumed cohabitation for a space of two years or upwards after the passing of a decree for judicial separation against that party; or

(ix) has failed to comply with a decree for restitution of conjugal rights for a period of two years or upwards after the passing of the decree.

(2) A wife may also present a petition for the dissolution of her marriage by a decree of divorce on the ground,-

(i) in the case of any marriage solemnized before the commencement of this Act, that the husband had married again before such commencement or that any other wife of the husband married before such commencement was alive at the time of the solemnization of the marriage of the petitioner:

Provided that in either case the other wife is alive at the time of the presentation of the petition; or

(ii) that the husband has, since the solemnization of the marriage, been guilty of rape, sodomy or bestiality.
Answer #2
848 votes
The best way to get separated is divorce by mutual consent. Talk to your wife in this regard. Be calm and also think about proper counselling of both of you. If you think that the only solution of your matter is to get separated and she doesn't agree to get divorce by mutual consent then we may file petition of divorce on the ground of cruelty.
Answer #3
673 votes
Legal separation (sometimes "judicial separation", "separate maintenance", "divorce a mensa et thoro", or "divorce from bed-and-board") is a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a de facto separation while remaining legally married. A legal separation is granted in the form of a court order.

Furthermore, in cases where children are involved, a court order of legal separation often makes temporary arrangements for the care, custody, and financial support of the children ("for the time being"). Thus, part of the court order determines child custody. Some couples obtain a legal separation as an alternative to a divorce, based on moral or religious objections to divorce.

Legal separation does not automatically lead to divorce. The couple might reconcile, in which case they do not have to do anything in order to continue their marriage. If the two do not reconcile, and they wish to proceed with a divorce, they must file for divorce explicitly.

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