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Pregnancy from my son and divorce from my abusive husband


31-Mar-2023 (In Divorce Law)
I'm 43. I have 2 children,a son and daughter. Because of my husbands abusive behaviour(drinking/ beating) to me and my children, I am going to file for divorce. My son and me have a sexual relationship for the past one year and I am 4 month pregnant from him. My husband think the baby is his, even though we very rarely have sex,and he told me he will fight for the custody of the baby when it is born. I plan to tell the court that it is from my son and I'm 100 % sure of it. Will I be in any sort of legal trouble if I disclose that my son and me are having a sexual relationship.My son is aged 22
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Answer #1
952 votes
Deare sapna ,
Mothers are one of life’s greatest gifts. They’re always there for us when we need them, they always seem to know just what to do, and many of us would likely be lost without them in our lives. This was disturbing to read. Abortion might be the better choice. This baby will most likely have health issues. I don't think this baby should be brought into this world under those circumstances. It's just wrong.
Are you mad to disclose the father of your new baby is your son. Whether you are you moral or immoral is not a thing. But the society is mad on you and you and your son will face lot of difficulty to sustain in this world. Did you think about your sons future . When he will grown he will attracted to another girl and wanted to marry that girl. .I think i already gave answer to this question earlier . Such societal taboos, however, are not always respected by family members acting in the privacy of their own home.

When close family member’s couple and have children, the risk of birth defects does increase. This is because--in the example given--the mother might be a carrier of a dangerous, but recessive, gene. She may have passed that gene onto her son. The gene will remain recessive and hence not a problem for either mother or son. However if the mother and son have a child together, then both parents of that child are carriers of the recessive gene. That gives the child a 1/4 chance of actually having the dangerous condition--and those are much worse odds than if either of them had kids with a random member of the population at large.

You are not grandma and mum - You are just the grandma who offered to be a surrogate womb for the baby. When the baby will realize the truth she/he will crucify you.

Answer #2
884 votes
I have already given my suggestion to this query. There are no legal elements involved as the queriest is posing a mere hypothetical query. It is inconceivable any responsible mother, however strained her relationship with the husband could be, willing to drag her own son into the quagmire and ruin his life, too.

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