Husband asking for divorce I am not willing to separate what to do

560 votes

Any specific suggestion depends upon what these family issues€ but the queries has chosen not to disclose them. As a matter of general principle and procedure, there would certainly opportunities for counselling and compromise once the matters reach the family court for a contested divorve.

Advocate P Venu LawRato

762 votes

What you exactly want ? Do you want to continue the relation or want the gold? Contact your husband and settle the matter amicably Or you want Gold file a petition for getting the Gold and maintenance from your husband before family court.

Advocate Ajay NS LawRato

606 votes

Dear Friend,
At first be cool and tackle the matter in a cool manner, since the matter is a family dispute.
As a primary step. Go through your wedding photos (which shows full ornaments you have worn on wedding day ),
if possible enlarge the photo to A4 size (2 numbers). Just number the items with a suitable CD marker and write
down the items and its weight in a paper along with the amounts you got from your parents and other articles
you got from your home. Just total it and keep it aside.
You must keep your wedding card and marriage certificate ready along with adequate number of photostat copies,
all this I told you to avoid last minute misses, if you want to move legally.

Then, just tell the matter frankly to your parents and request them to arrange a meeting of the elders from your family at your home, strictly. There you must tell the matter seriously. You are required to be bold for this purpose, because it is your life. If they are sticking on to divorce, just ask them issue a lawyer notice and in the immediate next day you may find a suitable family lawyer and file a petition for maintenance, since your husband is neglecting you. Also file a petition for Restitution for conjugal rights. In that both of you will be called for counseling. In the mean while you can also file a petition for return of ornaments. Finally, in short your husband will be pressurized with the proceedings of the court (in almost all cases, exceptions are there) , he will come in terms. One important thing is that avoid loose talks over phone, with any of his friends or relatives, since there is every chance of recording and using it against you. If you are in possession of any ornaments and if this ornaments are involved in the list of ornaments to be returned to you, avoid wearing it, keep it safely, if you wear it, there are chances of taking photographs and producing it before court, when the case for return of ornaments come up for hearing and this will adversely affect the return of ornaments case. Finally if there is no chances for a reunion, just file a joint petition for divorce and move accordingly. Be sure to sign the joint petition for divorce only after receiving and settling all financial deals.

Regards,

SACHIN.

Advocate Sachindas P LawRato

753 votes

If you are not willing for divorce nobody can force you for that. Consult with an advocate and file a case before the Family court where you reside for the restitution of conjugal rights. After you filed the case both of you will be calling for counselling.

Advocate Sindu R Kurup LawRato